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Why is it hard to admit we have been wrong?

It’s not easy to admit we have been wrong, because it attacks our self-esteem. When we say something, for example in an argument, we often feel proud of our statement. This kind of situation boosts our self-esteem and makes us feel smarter and better than the person we are talking to. Then, when we start to realise we’ve been wrong the whole time, taking the statement back just hurts our mentality. It makes us feel even more stupid and embarrassed. It also gives power to the recipient, which we interpret as just being worse than them. I think admitting to being wrong is hard, because we like feeling intelligent, and being wrong is just the opposite.


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  1. englishdiary7 November 2021 at 10:21

    This is a good paragraph: the topic sentence and the conclusion summarise it well and are not the same. You don't go off-topic but just support your opinion with an explanation.
    Something can hurt our EGO, not our 'mentality'.

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